Woman Pregnant and Cheated Upon
June 18, 2008
Submitted By: Woman - 20 - Straight - California, USA
i started dating this guy 2 years ago, then a couple months later i found out i’m pregnant and a couple days later, he confessed to me that he was cheating on me for 2 months. it was the most painful experience i’ve gone thru in my short life.
he remained very close friends with the girl, but i chose to forgive him, 6 months later when he would talk and see the girl, i decided i had to let him go so i started hanging out with this guy, i never made out with him or anything beyond but we cuddled. my bf and i broke up a couple times but got back together, then my bf found the guy in my apt late at night (we were just talking), i told him i wouldn’t do it again. 6 months later things went from bad to worse and he was still a crappy bf to me and we were broken up for over a month but kept in touch, so i found another guy then i got back with my bf and this, he went away for holiday and i actually did make out with that guy (resisted a couple times, even told the guy no…but we got too caught up) i decided to break up with my bf when he came back. my bf found the guy in my apt and we broke up…but later on he told me he would make me happy and begged for me back multiple times, so i ditched the other guy. i haven’t done anything since, and he finally stopped talking to the girl he cheated on me with. it’s been a couple months…and things were ok but they’re going down hill. i don’t know if i can stay in this relationship, but i can’t bring myself to leave.
i hate cheating and i hate cheaters, and i highly doubt i’d cheat again. but somehow i don’t feel so bad because i’ve always planned and wanted to leave the guy but i just couldn’t bring myself to, and when i liked another guy, we barely had a relationship. i feel like i can’t leave him until i fall for another guy. and sometimes i feel it’s a good thing that i cheated on him in the relationship because it was only then he realized how much pain he was causing me by keeping in touch with that girl. and that we were “even”
btw those two guys never knew i had a bf, but then again, they never asked!
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