Wife Blames Herself for Husband’s Infidelity
April 2, 2008
Written By: Woman - 43 - Straight - Atlanta, Georgia
All my friends are telling me that it’s not my fault that my husband is having an affair and that I need to get a divorce. Sometimes I think they’re right but whenever I get ready to do something about it I start wondering again if I brought this situation upon myself.
There are a bunch of reasons why I think this. After I got my promotion, I’ve had to work much longer hours and I spend at least five nights a month away from home on business trips. When I am home, I’m usually so tired that I don’t want to do anything. I used to be a pretty good cook. My husband and I loved playing golf together. Our sex life was pretty good before but now I rarely have the energy. I never even have the desire. Lately whenever I pretend to want sex, my husband says he doesn’t feel like it. I just really feel like I’ve pushed him away during the past two years. This is what I get for it.
I know about my husband’s affair because I read his email. I feel bad about this, too. I probably wouldn’t even have noticed that he was cheating otherwise since I’m so distracted by work. Part of me fantasizes sometimes that he initiates a divorce. But then I start thinking about how good things once were and I cry, missing the way things used to be and wishing we could start over again. I’m now afraid that if I even bring up his cheating and our problems that he’ll tell me he doesn’t love me anymore. I’m not sure I love him anymore either but I really want to make this marriage work.
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April 26th, 2008 at 10:02 pm
this is not your fault; i am a cheating spouse I we did not think of my husband are his wife; this decision was something we did own our own. i befriended this lady, went to her home; had get togethers there, our children were friends; husbands were friends; and not once did we think of the spouses.