Girlfriend Cheats When Away at College
May 12, 2008
Submitted By: Woman - 19 - Straight - Santa Barbara, California
I’ve been with my boyfriend since sophomore year of high school. We’ve been telling each other we’re going to get married after college for a long time. When we got together, I’d only slept with one other guy. I was really inexperienced. He and I had sex so much though that I felt after a while that I was really experience even though I’d only slept with two people.
Anyway, before we went away to college we swore we’d be faithful to each other. He went to school on the east coast so I only saw him when I took a trip out there for a long weekend last fall and then at Christmas break. Up until then I had been faithful except for kissing this one guy when I was drunk at a party. The kiss only lasted for a second so I didn’t really feel bad about it.
I don’t know what happened. At Christmas break, things felt a little weird with my boyfriend. I started wondering if he’d cheated on me. Thinking of it was driving me crazy. As soon as I was back at school, I had this overwhelming urge to cheat just once. I felt like it would help me not to feel so suspicious and jealous.
Anyway, I did it. The guy I cheated with obviously had a lot more experience than my boyfriend. I honestly didn’t know that sex could be that hot. I know that sounds weird but I just thought that sex wouldn’t be that different with another guy. This guy totally took charge. He held me down and did whatever he wanted to me. I really liked it.
So now I have a completely different problem. My boyfriend is coming home for the summer this week and I’m totally dreading it. I just feel like I’m going to be disgusted by the way he has sex with me. I know I shouldn’t have, but I actually cheated on him two more times with that same guy at school. I would have done it more but he started ignoring me. I think I still love my boyfriend but I’m wondering if I can get away with telling him to be a little more manly in bed. I’m worried it will make him suspicious. I don’t think I’m going to say anything at first and then see how I feel.
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December 18th, 2008 at 8:50 pm
You are the reason that guys become a$$holes later in life.. tell you boyfriend what you did, he deserves to know, especially if he is planning on marrying you after college. As for the sex, if you are basing your entire relationship on sex then you obviously aren’t mature enough to think about marriage.
December 26th, 2008 at 5:42 am
I completely agree with jake.
January 7th, 2009 at 4:05 am
i 2nd that
April 21st, 2009 at 2:31 pm
im the boyfriend she is talking about
April 21st, 2009 at 2:37 pm
her name is elisa, and no, i never, ever, cheated on her. she has lied to me many many times about being with other guys. i cant believe i found this on the internet. anyhow, elisa, this really hurts, one of the reasons i never railed the shit out of you is because of your past with molestation. i always felt like if i “took charge” you would have a relapse or something. crazy i know but i really cared about you and didnt want to be a dick. wow, “He held me down and did whatever he wanted to me. I really liked it.” i didnt think there were people this heartless in the world but here it is people. this is probably the most hurtful thing thats ever happen to me, and ive dated girls who have fucked my friends behind my back
April 21st, 2009 at 10:01 pm
wow, you deleted my last comments, now i know its you
April 21st, 2009 at 10:45 pm
advice from the boyfriend perspective:
look, first what you need to do is admit what you did was wrong. just because you THINK youre boyfriend cheated on you, which it says youre not sure, doesnt make it right for you to do so. you cannot be serious when you say you love this guy, you would not cheat on some one you love, at least not without some remorse. the fact that you did it more than once shows your lack of compassion your boyfriend. i mean, look how you felt, it drove you crazy. so you do it to him? why? to make him crazy?
second, you need to tell your boyfriend. take some responsibility for your actions and tell him the truth. if you LOVE him, then you should understand that lying to someone will catch up to you in the future.
third, i honestly cannot believe what you said about your boyfriend not being manly in bed. you should have said something to him, talk about what you like. tell him to be more aggressive. some guys are afraid to cross that line because not all women like that kind of stuff, and he could be afraid to take it that far.
but seriously, come clean, it might be ugly, but you will thank yourself later on for it
May 2nd, 2009 at 9:42 pm
That’s discrasful
What thrill would you get out watching someone else suffer in the style of ripping someones life apart
You have abused that mans loyalty and his dignity.
If you enjoy treating someone like that the way you do
You shouldn’t be in a relationship
You should be in a brothel.
May 4th, 2009 at 12:08 am
Here i am, looking up shit to try making me feel better about my gf going away soon while i stay home, and i stumble upon this…you dont know how crazy i was going earlier today on my own fucking birthday because of these thoughts, yet i see how it can happen. its disgusting. its people like you that make us good guys that treat you girls like gold regret ever being the way we are. my ex took for granted all the niceness i was to her, and after that i was worried it would just happen again…but i found a good girl that ive let myself become vulnerable with…which is why these thoughts have hurt me. what could have possibly been running through your head to let something like that happen and you think its okay? how do you think your boyfriend would feel knowing that he was prob saving himself for you for nothing when you were off basically spitting on his trust of you? and whoever reads this and has cheated…i dont get why you would. drunk isnt an excuse. ive been drunk countless times and i havent even hooked up before because I HAVE SELF RESTRAINT, and so do the rest of you…
ugh theres my venting on this…i cant stand cheaters…and in todays society, no one has respect for people in relationships anymore. that guy that this bitch cheated on with probably knew she was in a relationship, but i doubt he cared….
June 17th, 2009 at 4:23 pm
ive been cheated on by a girl who was cheated on. i thought she wont cheat on me as she knows how much it hurts. but noooo…she had to go and fuck some other guy the fucking bitch.
now the girl im with likes to go clubbing and flirts with other guys but says she loves me.
i fucking hate this shit.
i hate life. i hate humanity. i hate people. fuck you all.