he remained very close friends with the girl, but i chose to forgive him, 6 months later when he would talk and see the girl, i decided i had to let him go so i started hanging out with this guy, i never made out with him or anything beyond but we cuddled. my bf and i broke up a couple times but got back together, then my bf found the guy in my apt late at night (we were just talking), i told him i wouldn’t do it again. 6 months later things went from bad to worse and he was still a crappy bf to me and we were broken up for over a month but kept in touch, so i found another guy then i got back with my bf and this, he went away for holiday and i actually did make out with that guy (resisted a couple times, even told the guy no…but we got too caught up) i decided to break up with my bf when he came back. my bf found the guy in my apt and we broke up…but later on he told me he would make me happy and begged for me back multiple times, so i ditched the other guy. i haven’t done anything since, and he finally stopped talking to the girl he cheated on me with. it’s been a couple months…and things were ok but they’re going down hill. i don’t know if i can stay in this relationship, but i can’t bring myself to leave.

i hate cheating and i hate cheaters, and i highly doubt i’d cheat again. but somehow i don’t feel so bad because i’ve always planned and wanted to leave the guy but i just couldn’t bring myself to, and when i liked another guy, we barely had a relationship. i feel like i can’t leave him until i fall for another guy. and sometimes i feel it’s a good thing that i cheated on him in the relationship because it was only then he realized how much pain he was causing me by keeping in touch with that girl. and that we were “even”

btw those two guys never knew i had a bf, but then again, they never asked!

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It was the kind of situation where you wake up the next morning and suddenly remember everything that happened the night before. I was visiting a friend in New York, got tanked and ended up with this really skanky older chick. First of all, I shouldn’t have been having sex with anyone because I have a girlfriend. More importantly, this chick was disgusting, I can’t believe I was even able to do it. Worst of all, I didn’t wear a rubber. I was wasted but I actually do remember it being pretty good actually. It was all so hot I just didn’t want a condom and didn’t care. Not caring made it even hotter. Of course when it was all over I was totally worried that I’d caught something from this ho. I avoided sex my girlfriend for a week and got tested for everything. It was all clear but that was like playing Russian roulette!

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I made a really bad mistake a couple weeks ago and cheated on my boyfriend when I was on a weekend getaway with a few of my friends. It was just a random guy I met in a bar. My boyfriend and I had gotten into a really big fight right before I left and I was still pissed at him. I know that doesn’t justify it. I was drunk and it happened. Part of me wants to admit to my boyfriend what happened. I think he needs to know how upset he made me and he needs to be reminded that there are consequences for mistreating me. If he cheated on me, I would want to know. Of course, I’m also afraid he might just break up with me. I don’t want that to happen but I really do want to tell him.

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When I snooped around in my wife’s computer and discovered that she had a secret profile at an online dating site, I just knew she had to be sleeping around. Yeah, I guess there was a chance she was just keeping herself entertained online and not doing anything, but I had to find out for sure.

I created my own profile, complete with a photo of some handsome guy I took from a web site. I found her profile and started flirting. She totally went for it. Of course, I had an advantage, knowing the kind of stuff that turns her on. She actually had the nerve to describe herself as a “lonely housewife.” That’s bullshit. It didn’t take much on my part to get her to agree to a lunch date. I took the day off from work but left at my usual time. I wish I could have taken a picture of the look on her face when I walked into the restaurant. She knew she was screwed. It was just the reason I was looking for to end this lousy marriage. I’ve already got another girlfriend who is a thousand times better than my wife ever was. Catching her was the best thing that has ever happened to me.

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I spend about half my time at home and the other half at my company’s office in New York City. My girlfriend lives with me in Toronto. But in New York, I’ve got this other girl. Unfortunately, she’s really fallen for me. Worse, she doesn’t even know that I already have a girlfriend. It’s started to get pretty complicated with juggling her calls and making excuses for why I can’t talk to her sometimes. I know I should just be smart and end it. But the problem is that I don’t know which girl I want. My girlfriend who I live with doesn’t know it, but I’m trying to get a promotion to this job that would require me to live in New York. The decision on the promotion keeps getting delayed. If they’d only hurry up and decide at work I could figure out which girl I wanted to stay with. I’m tired of having two girlfriends!

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