Cheating Military Wives Caught On Ashley Madison

December 29, 2008

Submitted By:  Man – 28 – Straight – Serving in Iraq

Last time I was home, I just got this feeling that my wife was having an affair.  I don’t know what it was.  Something was different.  But I didn’t want to make a big deal out of it because I thought I was probably just being crazy and didn’t want to spoil everything.  Once I got back to Iraq though I just kept thinking about it.  Funny thing is that computers make it easier to cheat and easier to get caught cheating.

I knew my wife’s email password so I started going into her account. She’s too careful to use that account for anything serious but I did find this one email in the trash from one of her friends who is also my buddy’s wife.  The bitch said she’d found a new guy on “AM” and that he looked as good as his profile photo.  My buddy is in Iraq too.  I didn’t know what “AM” was but about ten minutes of searching around the internet made it clear that she must be talking about Ashley Madison, the dating site for married people.  Right then I knew that my wife must be doing it too.

All the Sex you can handle!

I didn’t know how I was going to track her down but just opened an account to see what I could do.  I narrowed it down by geographic location and age.  It only took me a few minutes to find the whore’s profile.  She had a photo that showed her from the shoulders down that was the same as a photo she’d sent to me.  It said she was primarily interested in phone sex but that she was open to other things.  I knew this meant she was most definitely looking for other things.

I still haven’t decided what I’m going to do.  Haven’t told her yet.  I’m thinking I should teach her a lesson and pretend to be some interested guy and then reveal who I really am when I have my proof.  Haven’t decided whether to tell my buddy yet either.

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16 Responses to “Cheating Military Wives Caught On Ashley Madison”

  1. Cheating Military Wives Are Common | SUCH A CHEATER!!! Says:
    December 29th, 2008 at 11:51 pm

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  2. Starr Says:
    January 9th, 2009 at 12:34 pm

    I feel for them both actually! It is not always as cut and dry as one would believe! When your a young woman and have no children and your home alone and yes your husband is off to war however, the loneliness and desire for attention and affection can be overwhelming! Being young has a great deal to do with it and just having someone to talk to or touch or kiss or more even does not mean that she will give up her husband! There is a great deal of psychological depth involved here! Ok, maybe she just should have not married at all however, one does not know the effects of being alone and under the guise that you are basically going to have to be abstinent! For some people, male or female, that just does not work period! Sorry! It’s the truth! The desire for sex and attention can be very powerful and a great need for it can be overwhelming! Also if you do not have any hobbies, or too many friends while living either on base or among other Gi’s wives with little to do and no money to do it……………

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    January 10th, 2009 at 8:56 pm

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  4. Phuong quynh le Says:
    February 9th, 2009 at 5:06 am

    Me too, I love one Man while my husband truong Anh quoc in Irac. The feeling very very good and exiting i ever got in my life, he new that I still love my lover and ask him to let me go but he won’t he try to revenge to what ever I did to him. Day after day now I live in worry, sadness and sorrowfull. Sorry for what I did to him but hope he understand how lonely I was and how greatfull this lover help me, warm me and care for me while I was lonely. Hope he can get this comment which is part of my wish to be with my love

  5. Orion Says:
    April 19th, 2009 at 2:04 pm

    Wow there are here very hypocrite remarks. First of all when a guys cheat, because his wife didnt give him some attention/affection. He’s a dog. But when a women cheats then everybody feels sorry for here etc.

    Conclusion.Women and Men are not the same and Women are weak because they cant stand temptation.

  6. AFFA81 Says:
    May 8th, 2009 at 7:22 pm

    i think that yall women that cheat should be brutally beatin torcherd and killed your heads cut off and your brains eatin by a cannible god help the bitch that never cheats on me

  7. JULS Says:
    February 27th, 2010 at 6:24 pm

    In reply to Orion…
    “Wow there are here very hypocrite remarks. First of all when a guys cheat, because his wife didnt give him some attention/affection. He’s a dog. But when a women cheats then everybody feels sorry for here etc”

    I agree. It should be reversed. If you have a key that opens up a lot of locks… it is considered a good key. If you have one lock that a bunch of keys can open, it is considered a shitty lock 😉

  8. John Says:
    January 28th, 2011 at 2:16 pm

    OK I may be the only one that feels this way but dang I love it when my wife tells me of her exploits while I am away. She is a human being and has her needs just like I have my needs. Jealousy only clouds things! We have a wonderful relationship, we love each other very much and I am very secure with myself. We only sleep with each other when I am home but when I am gone the doors are open. We have three kids together and she is now fixed, so am I so no accidents will occur. When we sit down to chat she will tell me about a guy she met and how wonderful the sex was then she will ask me about my fun times. Sometimes I have them sometimes I dont. She is gorgeous so she can get laid whenever. She never brings them home, and never sleeps with another man in my bed but she can have her fun. I dont understand the jealousy!!!

  9. SsgtMP Says:
    March 21st, 2011 at 11:19 am

    Of course there will be cheating. Come on people !!! Sex is sex and Love is Love.. Married for 15 years here and both very much in love, but we both realize that we both NEED sex. NOT love, Nothing emotional, but sex.
    I’m on my 3rd tour and me and my lovely wife have an open marriage, we actually opened an account on Ashley Madison for her together. she has found great dates on that site so far. I check her account from time to time and she would NOT go out with someone I don’t approve. She is allowed to have sex with other guys while I’m away. It takes all the pressure and the temptation away, the frustration for being separated for that long. Our love, commitment and marriage is stronger than never, she tells me all about the guys she have sex with, she is honest and upfront with them, she tells them she is happily married and is NOT looking for love or to change her status, all she wants is physical fun, SEX.
    Believe or not all you judging ppl, this is the best way to go. I love my wife, my family and she does too. There is NO cheating, no Lying, no hiding, therefore no hurt feelings..
    I personally love to know that while Im away serving the country that I love, some guy of HER choosing is serving the wife that I love..

  10. Cesar santini Says:
    March 4th, 2012 at 4:16 pm

    When I deployed in 2006 my fiancée was having an affair with a man from Michigan who was remodeling the store where she worked at as an assistant manager. Months after I returned home from Iraq I found out about this guy through text messages he send to her.

  11. Segment Producer Says:
    May 17th, 2012 at 6:25 pm

    I am a Television Producer. The show is about helping people. We are seeking women who have cheated on their significant other while he was away serving in the military, feel bad and want resolution. We would love to help.

    We have counselors and aftercare specialists who can work with you. If you are not in this situation but refer someone who appears on the show, we offer a $50 finders fee. If you would like to hear more about the show email a brief description of your situation to me at


  12. Jeff Says:
    July 10th, 2012 at 2:12 pm

    Let me tell you as a former therapist to married couples that you men who are ok with your wives sleeping around are by far the exception and not the norm and I would question how ok with it you really are, because alot of times the husbands have to be ok with it because they had no choice.

  13. joe nyendwa Says:
    September 18th, 2012 at 11:40 am

    Marriage is honorable you people…you cant let your wife have sex with another man…impossible.One man,one wife period…we are not dogs but human beings with senses and brains….why degrade yourself to the level of a dog when you are a human? Marriage is sacred…if you want to play,don’t marry…leave marriage to people who are serious….Adultery is SIN…

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  16. Jody Says:
    November 2nd, 2013 at 11:23 pm

    What did he think was going to happen, when he left his wife behind to play GI Joe?