Cheating Military Wives Are Common
May 7, 2008
Submitted By: Woman - 29 - Straight - Fort Hood, Texas
I used to be so shocked and disgusted when I’d hear about yet another woman who’d start cheating on her husband when he was off in Iraq. I really looked down on those women before. Well, now I’m doing it, too. My husband is on his second tour. After he came back from the first one, he was like a different person. He was always snapping at me and our kids and just acted like a typical jerk. He was never like that before. I know it’s the war that did this to him but eventually I just got fed up. I felt so alone even before he left again.
Then once he was gone I got all depressed. This friend of ours started looking after me pretty good. He wasn’t the one who initiated the sex. That was me. He didn’t resist but I don’t think he had any other motive. He’s being so sweet to me. I think he’s in love with me or something. I’m not sure how I feel. I’m pretty sure I’m going to tell my husband I want to get divorced once he’s back. But I’m not sure I’ll stay with this new guy. For now though it’s just what I need. It’s the only thing keeping me going. I want to get the hell off this base.
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December 29th, 2008 at 11:41 pm
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March 3rd, 2009 at 2:27 am
is his name drewlo you are a dumb bitch you are giveing up all that for what your husband has done for you i hope you get ran over by a mac truck and live but are so mess up and he leave you and takes the kids and you are alone for ever or you do leave him and find you cant make it on your own and go back to him and he doesnt take you back and you are fucked and youll end up like your mom shaking up with any one that will take care of you but always treat you like the piece of shit you are
March 3rd, 2009 at 1:42 pm
fucking slut! im in Iraq!
May 22nd, 2009 at 12:21 pm
You are a slut plain and simple!
July 4th, 2009 at 6:48 am
i am currently deployed and its hard for soldiers to deploy and leave there wife an family behind. know to go home and find some guy in my house sleeping in my bed telling my doughter what to do just becouse you got a little horny and can not control it how would u feel if i just went out an sleeped with some random girl
July 19th, 2009 at 12:51 am
It’s normal - separation brings temptation…especially for young people.
August 19th, 2009 at 1:22 am
just found out my husband of 6 years cheated on me. she is married to someone in the military….her name is liz …ick….wish i could tell her poor spouse!
August 26th, 2009 at 10:15 pm
The door swings both ways. I personally know of a military wife out of Pendleton who was so distraught with fear over her husband’s 2nd tour of Iraq, and was so convinced he wouldn’t make it home, that that she had a nervous breakdown and drank bleach in an attempt to kill herself, rather than live without him. She survived, but it turns out he was cheating for years and he broke the news to her in the hospital that he was leaving her.
October 27th, 2009 at 9:34 pm
You are a disgusting shameful person. If you didn’t want to be with him anymore you could have made that clear and left. You did not have to go around behind his back and cheat. Leaving is always an option even if you have kids. And lets say you have kids, then what’s going to hurt more? Leaving and having split parents or having their father always look at their mother as a cheating whore, worse yet when they understand what that means.
November 21st, 2009 at 12:54 am
I am disgusted! My husband has been to Iraq twice and now is in Germany and leaving for his third tour in approx. 2 months. I could never. Loneliness… yes but my love is stronger. It is unreal how you and others behave. I am a young, beautiful woman but the temptation for another man other than my husband is NOT AN OPTION. u people are sick and deserve what u get KARMA IS A BITCH…. that is pure selfish and disgusting on your part. u married the military and knew what u were doing when u did it, suck it up and live with ur decision or freaking leave
December 19th, 2009 at 4:04 am
Hi I’m a married soldier deployed3 times, i’m now stateside, thank God, but me and my wifegot to an agreement, we know that sex is physical, c’mon we’ll need some. The agreement is that we can cheat on each other while I’m deployed we’ve been married for 15 years been in the military 16, my marriage is great, so is my military career, best wishes to you’ll, Happy Holidays!!!!
December 20th, 2009 at 8:49 am
The Military men are by and large very guilty of this. The same values they constantly preach to others to follow they regularly neglect.
I’m in the military and I see this every day. I hate it.
December 24th, 2009 at 9:21 pm
If these soldiers had any honor maybe they would inspire loyalty from their spouses, but you go fighting in a dishonorable war (which both Iraq and Afghanistan are!) so maybe karma is a bitch huh?
December 29th, 2009 at 5:31 pm
Vern, I think you dont know what the hell you are talking about. What do you know about the conflicts of the Iraq or Afghanistan campaign. I think you are a ignorant fool, you Know well that the american government makes decisions to go to a foreign country and make war. Being in the military it is not my decision to be here or not, I am just a soldier doing my job. You need to get your facts straight before you run off at the mouth, do not pass judgement on service members when you have no idea what the hell its all about. What do you know of loyalty, these mean and women despite their own convictions or beliefs put there lives on the line for their country everyday. They serve with loyalty to their country, whatever the reasons are for a war misguided or not, you should feel lucky you have men and women willing to serve and protect their nation and all that inhabit it(including people like yourselves who like to take advantage of the opportunities this nation offers, largely in part of these servicemembers you like to speak so ill of). Thats ok Vern because karma is a bitch and i sincerely hope you realize the error of your ways before karma bites you in the ass you ungrateful SOB.
December 29th, 2009 at 5:33 pm
Vern, I think you dont know what the hell you are talking about. What do you know about the conflicts of the Iraq or Afghanistan campaign. I think you are a ignorant fool, you Know well that the american government makes decisions to go to a foreign country and make war. Being in the military it is not my decision to be here or not, I am just a soldier doing my job. You need to get your facts straight before you run off at the mouth, do not pass judgement on service members when you have no idea what the hell its all about. What do you know of loyalty, these mean and women despite their own convictions or beliefs put there lives on the line for their country everyday.
December 29th, 2009 at 5:34 pm
CONT:They serve with loyalty to their country, whatever the reasons are for a war misguided or not, you should feel lucky you have men and women willing to serve and protect their nation and all that inhabit it(including people like yourselves who like to take advantage of the opportunities this nation offers, largely in part of these servicemembers you like to speak so ill of). Thats ok Vern because karma is a bitch and i sincerely hope you realize the error of your ways before karma bites you in the ass you ungrateful SOB.
June 5th, 2010 at 6:59 pm
How sweet.., while the soldiers are out fucking Iraqi’s there wives are home fucking anyone!
June 25th, 2010 at 6:57 pm
I think its great these women are cheating on these soldiers!!! Keep it up!!! The majority of the male whores in the military are doing just that. Let them reap what they sew. Who the hell cares? I’m a military spouse and my husband has informed me of all the infidelity. I’ve seen some photos of it. I’m quite sure he’s guilty also. I can’t wait for his Karma to kick in too. Whatever you do will come back to you.
To those few faithful spouses all I can say is fret not. The cheating bastards will get their due and the scars will last a lifetime. I’ve seen it happen.
June 27th, 2010 at 7:22 am
well im just glad you know how to move around in this world. this dick, that dick, dont worrie babe im sure they all tast the same to you. suck your way to a better life sweetheart!
July 14th, 2010 at 5:20 am
I got your back Vern!!! I did a tour in iraq, came home to a cheating whore, got a divorce and separated after 10 years of service so she didn’t get a dime of my retirement. I’ve been to baghdad so I reserve the right to say its as dishonorable as all the infidelity that ensues.
August 22nd, 2010 at 10:52 pm
anyone who joins the service for this corrupt country has the IQ of a fence post. patriotism? of what? corporate greed, sexism and bigotry? and furthermore, military wives are mentally incompetent imbusills. and you people sucking uncle sam’s cock, are the same kind of filth that thinks marriage needs to be protected. protect what? this kind of insipid trash? heterosexuals are human garbage.
September 23rd, 2010 at 4:29 pm
Lets step out of the fairy tale world for a second. I am a soldier and I can testify with my hand on any bible that 90 percent of soldiers are screwing around on there wifes as well. Can’t just blame her the ball rolls both ways! I divorced my wife after she admitted to cheating but I was doing the same thing as well as almost everybody in my unit!
December 7th, 2010 at 3:45 pm
all military wives are broken whores that marry military men for the prestige they think it’ll give them. then when their husbands are on leave they fuck every male at the base. they are scum.
December 21st, 2010 at 7:14 pm
How hilarious. The person two posts above who referred to military wives as mentally incompetent imbeciles spelled imbecile incorrectly! Imbusills….seriously? Epic fail.
December 24th, 2010 at 4:28 am
Vern - You don’t know a damn thing I bet your one of the pathetic civi’s who sit around waiting for soldiers like myself to deploy and then wait for a girls night out and then go hunting, I’m even willing to bet that your education is less than my 12 year old daughter and you are a bit spiteful towards our service members because you were denied service…. Further more my wife is very loyal and she is also Army, Neither one of us are worried about the other and we support each other in all decision making, I dare you to make a pass at my wife, you’ll wake up with a really big head ache after she knocks your A$$ out!!!!
March 21st, 2011 at 11:06 am
Of course there will be cheating. Come on people !!! Sex is sex and Love is Love.. Married for 15 years here and both very much in love, but we both realize that we both NEED sex. NOT love, Nothing emotional, but sex.
I’m on my 3rd tour and me and my lovely wife have an open marriage, she is allowed to have sex with other guys while I’m away. it takes all the temptation away, the frustration for being separated for that long. Our love, commitment and marriage is stronger than never, she tells me all about the guys she have sex with, she is honest and upfront with them, she tells them she is happily married and is NOT looking for love or to change her status, all she wants is physical fun, SEX.
Believe or not all you judging ppl, this is the best way to go. I love my wife, my family and she does too. There is NO cheating, no Lying, no hiding, therefore no hurt feelings..
I personally love to know that while Im away serving the country that I love, some guy of HER choosing is serving the wife that I love..
June 28th, 2011 at 6:15 pm
I was with a marine, faithful to him especially during this 1st deployement I had to endure. And it was HARD! The worst thing was not touching him, having him hold me and to see his face. Then I find out this snake cheated on me, lied to me and a bunch of other stuff. I can’t tell you the heartache I felt. So I know how it feels. I would’ve never done anything like that to him. But the feeling, fidelity and love was not mutual. He’ll get his in the end but I’m good knowing I was a good, no great woman and it’s hard to find that kind of love.
I wish you would’ve been able to work things out and your husband go to counseling but hey it’s your house and your life. Just be careful and I wish you luck and the wisdom to make the right decisions.
August 19th, 2011 at 9:02 pm
you know I’m sick of everyone acting like its the woman…. to the ones in the military… how does it goes… what happens TDY stays TDY? well it don’t stay TDY! and what happens while deployed in the sandbox? don’t act like it don’t… so to all the asses that act like its just the woman back home… your secrets are not always going to be safe… and they will come forward… if your in the sandbox or in Korea… lets hear how it really is.
October 14th, 2011 at 4:06 pm
If this second guy is smart he’ll dump you before your husband returns .All you want in a guy is between his legs and nothing more .You’re friend knows that, and you’re just another easy slut for him .You would make a good hooker,and could get banged 5 or 6 times every night .You would like that,I know .