Boyfriend Cheats on Woman, and She Cheats Back
November 16, 2009
Written By: Woman - 19 - Straight - New York City
I have been with my boyfriend (recently turned fiance) for 3 years. When I met him he was already in a relationship and lived with a woman whom I knew nothing about. I found out too late after falling deeply attached, and was greatly heartbroken. This caused lots of grief, embarrassment, and even a fights between her and me. I continued to stay with him through all the stress due to my love for him. Until summer of 09, he finally moved out and we were together officially. Well, so I thought.
I believe he continued to see her even until today. But then the summer went horribly wrong. He was cheating on me with someone else. I didn’t have proof but i felt it. We started to fall apart slowly but surely and hardly spoke or saw each other because of his infidelity.
So one night I saw a long time crush of mine. I always LOVED this man but never knew him at all. Just always saw and admired him from afar at parties and around the neighborhood. He has always tried to talk to me but I always refused him because i was in a relationship. Until that night I saw him while in my heartbroken state. And that night I finally didn’t refuse. We exchanged numbers and the rest is history. We began meeting up regular and began having sex, not just normal sex but passionate sex as if we’ve known each other for years. We were just so comfortable with each other. He made love to me and made my legs tremble as my bf never did. I was deeply infactuated with this man and I still am.
But unfortunately our escapades ended by a jealous friend of mine informed my bf of my affair. It hurt me deeply to let go of him but I did. And my bf and I worked things out. I later found out my instinct were right and he had indeed been cheating, so i no longer felt guilty about cheating. He has cleaned up his act now and we’re very happily engaged.
The problem now is I can’t focus on him. Only my crush fills my head all day everyday. Its funny, my bf always told me that even though he was with his other gf and me at the same time he always was constantly thinking of me and I was the first thought in his mind when he awoke in the morning, even though his gf was right at his side. Well now I feel the same as he did. I yearn for someone else’s love and affection. Is this karma? Is this payback for him dumping his ex for me? Will this cycle repeat it’s self?
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Girl Cheats on Boyfriend When Away at College
November 15, 2009
Written by: Woman - 18 - Straight - New York City
I’ve cheated previously on my boyfriend of 3 years only 6 months into the relationship. We weren’t having sex, and I was 16 and away from home. I had too much to drink and there it went.
But nearly 2 and half years later we are still dating and I am in college. Before going into college my boyfriend dumped me knowing that he couldn’t trust me.
Well he came to visit me about a month into college and then changed is mind about us not dating. I wasn’t sure about it because even though I love my boyfriend to death I felt like it was time to move on since I knew he would never move to New York and I would never move back home.
Last night I cheated. And I feel terrible. I have already made the decision to not tell my boyfriend but perhaps discuss what we really want from our relationship. During the whole cheating act I only thought of him. I love him. But I am not going to be unrealistic about our relationship. Help, please.
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Sex Addict Wife Is a Serial Cheater
October 22, 2009
Written By: Woman - 34 - Straight - Nashville, TN
I don’t even know where to start. It’s been five years now since I started a new job, with lots of travel. I go out of town 2-3 nights a week for my job. Been married to my husband now for 10 years and do really love him. This is not about love, but hot addictive sex.
It started in an upscale bar in another city. We had drinks and this man was very aggressive, nice but hard to say no to. He ended up in my hotel room because my husband would always call and I wanted to be there to get the call. While I was on the phone, my friend fingered me and kissed my neck, it was hard to stay calm talking to my husband. We had hard driving great sex after and all I could do was think about being fingered while talking to my husband and then having sex after. It was something i could not resist.
With the help of the net and an advance travel schedule, I would set up dates before my trips. It was such a rush, a sexual high like no other drug, I simply could not stop. Some men did not work out, the chemistry was not there, and my backup plan was an upscale club. I did 1-2 men every week for the last 5 years and I have tried 50 times to stop. It’s the rush, the thrill I love and the sex is wonderful. On occasion I will go to a club that caters to interracial and pick up a black man, that is a treat for me.
I have a business card in my purse of a psychologist that deals with sexual addiction, but I never seem to make the call. I really don’t want to stop, but know that someday I will or get caught.
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Boyfriend Cheats On the DL with Other Men
October 21, 2009
Written By: Male - 20 - I have no clue anymore - Nunya
Ok so i have this amazing girlfriend…She is everything to me, i love this girl with all my heart. She takes care of me when i’m sick…and always makes sure i’m happy…god you should see these big angel eyes of hers…i don’t know what i would ever do if i lost her…But i have done something horrible. For the past year now i have been cheating on her with guys… And flirting with girls. My girlfriend doesnt like sex….so i can not be satisfied…i dont want to lose her, but yet i don’t want to lose sex. Shes everything you could ask for and there will never be another like her. I have already told her of one cheat, but did not go in to detail about others…she said she forgives me and wants to be with me….god i love her for that. But i have an illness…somethings wrong…denying an open sex op is like saying no to a million dollars….ya just cant do it. And i’m nothing but a shit bag for that…sometimes i think about it and just want to jump off a building..how could i do this to her? the sad thing is…she doesn’t know i continue. I Just needed to confess. No need for any advise, i know i’m a piece of shit.
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Cheating Wife Has Group Sex
October 20, 2009
Written By: Woman - 32 - Straight - USA
I feel like the worst person in the world. I’ve been married for 5 years, but we’ve been together for almost 15 years. The other night I was at a friend’s house. Her & her boyfriend started having sex while me & a friend of her boyfriend’s watched. Well then the friend and I started to mess around. We didn’t actually have sex, but we did everything else. I feel so guilty. I’ve never done anything like this before, this is totally the opposite of me. If my husband found out, it wouldn’t be good for anyone. What should I do??
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Girlfriend’s Low Sex Drive Drives Lesbian to Cheat
August 1, 2009
Written By: Woman - 21 - Lesbian - Canada
So I’ve been dating my girlfriend for nearly three years and things are great. She’s my best friend and we have a lovely home together. However, her sex drive is lower than mine. She wants to have sex (itss great when we do) but she doesn’t want as often as I would like. So I met this girl randomly at the local bar about a month ago and we started hooking up. My girlfriend doesn’t know and I don’t intend for her to find out. She told me the other day that I’ve been much more relaxed and less high strung than usual… So I guess a little something on the side has improved our relationship!
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